Most men make one of two mistakes with women and it squelches all attraction.
Mistake # 1: Showing Too Much Interest
When the collective "nice guy" likes a woman, he incessantly ogles at her, pays her compliments, and fondles her.
As a result, she thinks he's needy and loses interest.
Mistake # 2: Constantly Pushing Women Away
This is the bane of the consummate bad boy. Around women, he oozes languor. Instead of complimenting them, he makes fun of them. The physical affection he gives them teeters on zero.
A Middle-ground: Two Steps Forward & One Step Back
The master Lothario always takes two steps forward and one step back.
Let's break this down by starting with compliments and insults. A Lothario would start off with a small compliment - maybe about her clothes. Then he'd make a more brazen compliment about her physical beauty. He might say, "You're lips are very full and sexy." Then he'd take a step back by maybe adding, "But you wear too much makeup."
To sum this up, the first two compliments are steps forward. The slight insult is a step backwards.
Now let's analyze how the Lothario applies the principle "two steps forward and one step back" to the amount of attention he gives women. If a woman says something interesting, he might say, "That's really interesting." Then he may even start asking her questions about it. Next, to throw her for a loop, he might look disinterested and ho-hum.
Now the part you've been waiting for: How to apply the principle "two steps forward and one step back" to getting physical with women.
A master seducer starts by placing his hand on her arm. Then he rubs it a little. Next, before she can move his hand away, he removes it.
Then he may start rubbing his hand through her hair. After a good minute, he may grab a nice chunk of hair at the base of her scalp and gently pull (women find this very arousing). Then he will remove his hand.
Next, he'll resume rubbing her hair. Then he'll look into her eyes and softly brush his lips against hers. When she tries to kiss him, he'll pull back.
This turns women on - big time. Try it yourself and see how well this works.
Mistake # 1: Showing Too Much Interest
When the collective "nice guy" likes a woman, he incessantly ogles at her, pays her compliments, and fondles her.
As a result, she thinks he's needy and loses interest.
Mistake # 2: Constantly Pushing Women Away
This is the bane of the consummate bad boy. Around women, he oozes languor. Instead of complimenting them, he makes fun of them. The physical affection he gives them teeters on zero.
A Middle-ground: Two Steps Forward & One Step Back
The master Lothario always takes two steps forward and one step back.
Let's break this down by starting with compliments and insults. A Lothario would start off with a small compliment - maybe about her clothes. Then he'd make a more brazen compliment about her physical beauty. He might say, "You're lips are very full and sexy." Then he'd take a step back by maybe adding, "But you wear too much makeup."
To sum this up, the first two compliments are steps forward. The slight insult is a step backwards.
Now let's analyze how the Lothario applies the principle "two steps forward and one step back" to the amount of attention he gives women. If a woman says something interesting, he might say, "That's really interesting." Then he may even start asking her questions about it. Next, to throw her for a loop, he might look disinterested and ho-hum.
Now the part you've been waiting for: How to apply the principle "two steps forward and one step back" to getting physical with women.
A master seducer starts by placing his hand on her arm. Then he rubs it a little. Next, before she can move his hand away, he removes it.
Then he may start rubbing his hand through her hair. After a good minute, he may grab a nice chunk of hair at the base of her scalp and gently pull (women find this very arousing). Then he will remove his hand.
Next, he'll resume rubbing her hair. Then he'll look into her eyes and softly brush his lips against hers. When she tries to kiss him, he'll pull back.
This turns women on - big time. Try it yourself and see how well this works.
