Tuesday, August 16, 2011

Not Just Diamonds Anymore: the Contemporary Eternity Wedding Band

By Allison Johnston


Time has gone by and you are now deciding to pause and reflect on your time together in the years that have passed since your wedding day. It is an opportunity to reaffirm the tremendous love that has deepened with the passing of years.

This ceremony will be a symbol of looking forward to many more years together. Your vows will reflect a mature love blessed with all the joys and challenges of the years. It will reflect what you have become in your years together. It is a fun way to rejuvenate your marriage and to begin your relationship again.

Some call this ceremony a "renewal of wedding vows," a "recommitment of Love" ceremony or a "reaffirmation of Love" ceremony. Whatever you choose to call it, it is a most meaningful event, for you, your children, family and close friends.

There are many options. You can do something similar to what you did when you first got married or you can come up with something completely different and meaningful to you now. You may want to choose to speak some new promises to each other. The ceremony can be as creative or as simple as you want it to be; formal or casual and fun. It isn't supposed to be a re-enactment of your wedding day, but a celebration of the growth and depth of your relationship. there are no rules when it comes to this kind of ceremony. There is no correct or incorrect way to do a vow renewal, whatever you want to do and feel comfortable doing is what you should do.

This ceremony can be held anywhere - in a park, garden, on the beach, in a hot air baloon, or in your home with a few close family friends. Use your imagination! Wherever you choose to do at your ceremony, remember that more than the flowers or ribbons or fancy clothes, it is the love in your heart that creates the beauty and magic of Love. After all, it is love that brought and kept you together all these years.




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